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How Far Will You Go?

This world is changing and as each day passes we are connecting with each other around the world more and more. This connectivity is good for many things, and relationships can be one of them. We have access to basically talk to whoever we want no matter where they live, and relationship wise this is huge because it gives us more freedom to date who we want. This isn't the 1800s, were not forced into arranged marriages, or stuck in our home town where we end up marrying the person three doors down. We have the ability to commit to long distance relationships.  The question is: are you willing to make that chance?  Alyssa's perspective:   Okay, so I am a firm believer that your soulmate isn't living next door to you unless you just happen to be extremely lucky. However, I am very torn on the idea of long distance relationships. They can either be an amazing experience or break your heart, but I mean so can any other relationship. Long dist...

GUYS AND GALS Crops or Nah?

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Imagine this, you and you're family are walking into the mall or a movie theater or whatever normal families do for fun. You see a girl walk out in some blue jeans and a cute red crop top. Your family walks past without a blink of an eye. Soon after a guy wearing black jeans and a blue crop top walks out as well. Your family stops. Gasp. Tells you to never wear something like that because it's not manly enough. Now you as a child understands that you are supposed to listen to the adult in this situation. What you nor your family knew was that that guy has six years of boxing under his belt, runs 5k's for fun and has an auto shop just down the road that he opened. What would you do if you understood the definition of manly and knew his history?... Nash's Perspective: So let's start off small with this one. I'm judged every day I wear a crop top. It usually starts off with, "Crop Tops are meant for women, not men." and then it escalates to "Well...

The Holiday Blue's

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We've all been here before. Where we're alone on a holiday or a slew of holidays. What do we do? Get drunk? Travel? Have fun? Get married or engaged? Date someone to feel an emotional connection? Who knows! I know I don't but that's why I'm single :D Anyways, we're gonna try to find out what to do. Wish us luck... Nash's Perspective: So I've had my fair share of lonely holidays. Whether it be third wheeling like I did last night or just sitting at my house alone. I know the feeling of wanting to either be with someone or do something. I really don't like being alone. Should we try to figure this out together? Yes! By now we've all seen the poll or participated in it. These are the results from the poll on Instagram relating to this post, As everyone can see, opinions and decisions are made. Over 40 people (I know it's not that many, look I'm not that popular on insta okay. So follow me ❤) think that it's not okay to date someone...

The Codex of Besties

Is there a secret code that we follow among our friend groups? If so could you enlighten us on the rules? Guys and Girls please and thank you! In any romantic comedy, it is not unusual to see the main characters ex-boyfriend/girlfriend date their best friend. Which can be a great plot for a movie but how well does it actually play out in real life?  In this situation, we often don't think about the timing or even the emotional repercussions among the friend group. I'm gonna break it down real simple: Is dating your best friend's ex-boyfriend/girlfriend right or wrong?  Alyssa's Perspective: Oofda doofda, well this is a topic that hits really close to home. Personally, I don't think it is okay to date your best friend's ex. I think that if I were dating my best friend's ex, it would not only be making it awkward for my best friend but also everyone involved. If you're dating your best friend's ex, who do you talk to ab...

Hooked On Shagging?

*DING* iMessage from Tinder Hottie Tinder Hottie:  Hey, wanna go on a date tonight? I'm finally free! - Sent @ 5:00 PM Me: Yeah I know a really good pizza place, we could go at 8? -Sent @ 5:12 PM Tinder Hottie:  Sure! Afterward, wanna go back to my place? You can stay the night 😜🍆 -Sent @ 5:30   Me : Or we could like go to the movies, or I could take you out to dinner? It's our first date... - Sent @ 6:45 PM Tinder Hottie:  Sooooooo you don't wanna? I mean I guess we can go on a date. I just wasn't expecting that  - Sent @ 7:00 PM ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Any of you guys ever experience this? Getting enough courage to finally ask that Guy or Gal that you've been crushing on and you get a reply asking to have some kind of sexual intent behind it...

Perfection - Is It Really The Ideal State?

 Since this is our first real post, we'll show you how it's gonna be done. First a generalization, next comments from yours truly and afterward a statement to see if we can agree on a specific outcome and then finally we'll ask to see what you guys think! After all, all we're doing is giving our opinions so why not give yours as well! So Here We Go!  Do you believe in Perfection? Do you think there is something out in this world that is the way it should be? I don't mean right now but over time. It can't change, it cant evolve. It stays the same and everyone would know its perfection? Perfection : The quality or state of being perfect: such as freedom from fault or defect: Flawlessness So tell me, do you believe that this is true or false ? Nash's Perspective: So this one idea or state is a big thing for me. In my generation, it pops up everywhere from celebs to individuality and even in our love lives (Except I don't have one of those 😅)...

Welcome To Perspectively Gay!

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Welcome!  This will be a space where we not only can get those thoughts and ideas that we choose to keep hidden can be expressed but learn and grow at the same time. So how about some introductions first? Hi, we're just a couple of Gay Siblings who have a need to voice some opinions. Crazy right? a Lesbian and Gay in this time? Shocking. We're both in College and let's just say its eye-opening. The world is different than what we were taught to believe. We're here to expose those secrets and give a voice to those who are too terrified of societies rules and war tactics to keep us in line. Time to break some walls and tear down some stereotypes all the while learning about who we are and what the world has in store for us. Join the journey and let's start a revolution!   Is this where I put information like I'm writing for a tinder profile or something? Well, I guess here goes nothing. So I'm Nash. The older sibling but only by twenty-two months. I...